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Why we need more good listeners in our lives?

Photo by  Cleyder Duque  from  Pexels   “ People don’t always need advice. Sometimes all they really need is a hand to hold, an ear to listen, and a heart to understand them. ”                                                                                               - unknown   Ever felt lonely despite surrounded by a tone of people. I can make sure you have because that’s how we humans have adapted ourselves from the beginning of our civilization struggling our entire life searching for people w...
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How to have zero haters in your life?

Image by  Joan Cabras  from  Pixabay     “Learn to use the criticism as fuel and you will never run out of energy.” – Orrin Woodward The simple and inevitable answer to this question is it's impossible. The mere reason is different people have a different set of rules fed in their brain to judge and analyze people. And nobody in this whole world has the power to change the way a person thinks about another person.  So why waste your precious time thinking about how people judge you to make themselves feel better. The first thing you have to accept with all your heart is that it’s ok to be hated for the reasons you think are making you a better and progressive person . Because if your success is what makes others uncomfortable then god bless them. Sometime questions pop up in my mind asking myself what might be the reason that humans are that insecure with another human, why it’s so much hard for people to accept someone else’s success?...

How our desire to make more money has changed us as a human....

Photo by Jp Valery on Unsplash "After a certain point, money is meaningless. It ceases to be the goal. The game is what counts."   - Aristotle Onassis money is something which creates the basic structure of our entire human existence .  it is one of the most valuable key element which helps us sustain a balance between everything. In simple words, money can be defined as an economic factor which gives us the power to acquire anything we want in whichever quantity we want. it is the most suitable unit of negotiation between different markets which replaced the old traditional barter system under which goods are procured and bartered in exchange for goods and services. but why we created money and what changed after it? as we all know that necessity is the father of invention and as a result of the difficulties suffered by people during trade induced the idea of a unit with a special value which changed the entire monetary system of the world resulting in hassle-free tr...

Stop saying yes when you don't mean it..

Photo by Xavi Cabrera on Unsplash "Don't allow people to suck up all your time with their questions or problems. Learn to say 'no' more often."  - Lewis Howes                                                                  Sometimes I feel pathetic when I say yes for the things I should have said no .   it really makes me stressed enough that just after saying yes I start finding ways to get out of the situation as soon as possible because somehow it affects my inner peace in a bad way and I think this is the case with almost every one of us. people struggle a lot just to say a simple no for the things they don't want to do. I say yes because I think I am gonna hurt people who are close to me and the people  I love.  I end up saying yes because I am afraid of rejection and don't want to be alone. Are ...

How to find your passion and get a fulfilling life ? 4 simple and practical methods to understand your limitless capabilities..

" If you feel like there's something out there that you're supposed to be doing if you have a passion for it, then stop wishing and just do it. " - Wanda Sykes Passion is something we are born with which separates us from the rest of the world. It is something which makes us feel special about ourselves regardless of our status in society. or we can say it is the fuel which ignites the fire within us to make the unimaginable happen. it appears great to hear and easy to attain but the scenario is exactly the opposite of what we think. In real life it's difficult enough that some people find their passion in the early stages of their life, some find it later and some never at all. people make mistakes by searching their passion in the outside world looking and taking inspiration from people doing great in their specialized fields . we have to understand that finding real passion is an inner process which takes place only within us . I myself tried to copy others jus...

Why you are not good enough ? : a question which needs to be answered 7 ways

  “Don't doubt yourself for having all the good intentions others can never have, make yourself your first and last priority .”         ― The cosmic time Sometimes I find myself at places where I am forced to think that I am not good enough for a certain thing and I am 100% sure that almost every human being on this planet has gone through that very same feeling you are facing right now.  but the difference is some think they are not beautiful enough , some think they are not happy enough , some think they are not tall enough, concluding them together we can say no one has ever told themselves that they are good enough for anything at the very beginning.  The reason is we compare ourselves with others too much and too often as we believe that the life of the other person is perfect in every aspect we can imagine. but the truth is very distasteful because the person whose shoes you desperately want to try might be facing much bigger problems than you h...